人生

没有一个人的生活道路是笔直的，没有岔道的西，有些岔道口，你走错一步，可以影响人生的一个时期，也可以影响一生

泛若不系之舟

宗萨仁波切就曾一针见血地指出“真正使我们迷失的是我们的无明，贪欲，不安全感，想走捷径。”我想人们也并一定真的热衷于这样的生活，只是屈服于群体压力，生怕自己落后于同辈和时代，生怕被抛到社会热点之外。久而久之，我们关心成功和娱乐远甚于自己的心灵，也越来越无法面对真实的自我——频繁的自拍和更新状态可不能算是“面对自我”，他们实质的目的仍是想要得到外界的认可。

花束般的恋爱

据说如果一起吃了三次饭还没告白那就只能当朋友

羞耻

The air there is full of unasked questions. But their smell is faint, and the flowers in the many maturing gardens, the trees lining the avenues, the perfumes worn by the beautiful soignee ladies of the neighbourhood quite overpower this other, too-abstract odour.You can get anywhere in Pakistan if you know people, even into jail.Shame is like everything else; live with it for long enough and it becomes part of the furniture.Shame: a short word, but one containing encyclopaedias of nuance. It was not only shame that his mothers forbade him to feel, but also embarrassment, discomfiture, decency, modesty, shyness, the sense of having an ordained place in the world, and other dialects of emotion for which English has no counterparts.