A young woman I39;m very fond of said to me:it39;s always a problem with men,I39;ve had to learn not to overdo.She meant that she had trained herself not tobe too beautiful,too intelligent,too considerate,too independent,toogenerous,too aggressive,too nice.The 34;too34;of a woman produces violentmale reactions and,in addition,the enmity of other women,who every dayare obliged to fight among themselves for the crumbs left by men.The34;too39;of men produces general admiration and positions of power.